If I had been a scientist, I’d wish to research the brains of everybody on this season of Love Is Blind to determine what went unsuitable to make them so… terrible. And excessive up on my record can be Clay. 

And it’s not even Clay’s blatant fatphobia and even his incapacity to comprehend you must truly spend time together with your fiancé that makes him so mystifyingly unhealthy. No, what I’m actually confused about is how typically Clay principally warns AD that he’s going to cheat on her. 

Hear, I’m all for self-awareness and realizing how your mother and father and their relationship have an effect on your maturity. That’s all nice. What isn’t so nice is Clay utilizing this each two seconds on the present to inform AD dishonest is principally in his DNA. I’m sorry, however what?

Positive, statistically, persons are extra more likely to cheat if their mother and father cheated. However Clay is conscious that his father cheated on his mom and that dishonest is unhealthy… and someway, he’s nonetheless frightened he may cheat. As if it’s out of his management? As if it’s in his blood??

We’d like a critical actuality examine right here. Initially, I do know he’s your dad, but when the person was continuously stepping out in your mom, disrespecting their relationship, and even going so far as to take you with him to cheat in your mother — possibly you must rethink calling him your function mannequin. As a result of I’m certain he was an incredible dad to you and all, however why would you attempt to emulate somebody who was an terrible associate to any lady, not to mention the lady who birthed and raised you?? Additionally, let’s not overlook he *joked* that his father would in all probability hit on AD if he met her. Ew. Simply ew. 

And might we take a second to speak about Clay’s different function fashions? Will Smith? DIDDY?? There are such a lot of nice Black males within the trade that you possibly can select to look as much as (if you happen to completely should use Hollywood for function fashions), and also you select somebody with probably essentially the most memeable relationship in Hollywood and a literal predator? I’m attempting so onerous to not flip my desk proper now. 

As a result of Clay appears to be so very open to speaking about his “fears” of dishonest, you may begin to assume that he’s being mature and attempting to specific his emotions to AD. Sorry, that’s bullshit. What he’s truly doing is telling her that he’s positively going to cheat and placing the thought into her head now in order that when it does occur, he can shrug his shoulders and inform her, “I advised you so.” Mainly, to place the accountability on her, as a result of, hey, he did his half by warning her. 

I want Clay to develop up, go to that remedy he apparently realizes he wants, and depart AD alone. And AD lady, I want you to make use of that superb vitality you had for Sarah Ann for your self and understand that you just deserve so far more than a person who thinks infidelity is hereditary.