1. Don’t justify why you probably did incorrect. Settle for it was incorrect.
2. Don’t seduce your spouse into intercourse hoping that intercourse will make your spouse neglect the incorrect you probably did and you may escape humbling your self to make an apology.
3. Don’t blame your spouse for making you do one thing incorrect. Be an grownup. Take duty for your actions.
4. Don’t ship pals, household or siblings to apologise on your behalf. It exhibits cowardice. Face the one you may have wronged.
5. Don’t belittle the incorrect you probably did as if displaying your spouse he/she is overreacting. If it’s a massive deal to your spouse, take it as an enormous deal.
6. Don’t begin itemizing your spouse’s previous wrongs when your spouse confronts you on your present incorrect. Love doesn’t hold a report of wrongs.
7. Don’t apologise on social media or put a put up on Fb or WhatsApp standing hoping your spouse will see it with out saying something in non-public. Make your apology private and heartfelt.
8. Don’t brush it off and transfer on as if nothing occurred simply because you realize your spouse loves you. Don’t sweep issues beneath the carpet.
9. Don’t throw cash and presents at your spouse and doing good deeds with out addressing the harm you may have precipitated and the difficulty. You possibly can’t purchase your means into therapeutic. Therapeutic is emotional, not materials.
10. Don’t apologize rudely and casually saying “Aah, OK then, I’m sorry then if that may make you cease complaining” simply because your spouse has requested for an apology. Present real regret.
11. Don’t look ahead to when your spouse has determined to divorce you or to break up with you to let go of your ego and make an apology. You is likely to be too late.
12. Apologize as quickly as doable, sincerely, acknowledging your fault, recognizing how it hurts your spouse, assuring him/her of your love and committing to do higher.
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